Solving emotional problems

Maybe I try too hard to stay neutral. I never really blame anyone for anything. Because that is just wrong. 

Worse if you ever expressed that you do blame someone. People never like it when others blame them for what they think they did not do. That is why, never blame anyone. 

Even if its someone's fault, never make it look like one. When something actually happens, expressions like "that's how you are" and "you are always like this" will never really help unless the subject has control and conscious over where has to be corrected. Because if they really don't know, it will only create anger and frustration.

People never automatically know where their wrong is most of the time. The fact that we never really do is because we are just human, no matter how much we hate it. We can never know everything. This is why we should correct ourselves if we do. This is also why we should be grateful when others are willing to point out our mistakes.

Sometimes its not easy to change our reactions to certain situations. In my opinion, reacting badly or emotionally to things is certainly normal. Even if we understand where our wrongs are, it might not be easily corrected. Sometimes, changing our opinions to things feels like losing ourselves. But it helps to acknowledge the problem does not always lie in ourselves either?

Anyhow. I believe that we can do anything, as long as we have the faith and the will. Any problems and obstacles, we can overcome.

 

 I don't want to ever lose control over myself. But still, I do. Because we might hurt people unknowingly and even consciously. It feels horrible. Everyone else's happiness is of utmost priority.