Well maybe we just can't stop taking things personally in terms of expressing our thoughts because expressing IS personal. Reading and seeing things through the web feels much more closer as "personal learning"? Or maybe just for me, since everything that happens just don't feel special nor real to me anymore...
Not that I want to make anyone feel bad but after seeing blogs like this: http://myrollingstar.tumblr.com/ my life seems so dull and my mind so shallow hahaa (btw her drawing skills is to die forrr)
But as sad as the situation is, there is a solution to all this depression and envious thinking, and this solution, is actually very very simple.
Just. Stop. Comparing.
With Others.
Stop comparing yourself to others and just compare ourselves to ourselves. that way we can find our own flaws and acknowledge what we're good at. It is also very rewarding when you find how much you have progressed since a while ago. That way we can easily spot our own flaws and improve, instead of forever drooling over other people's success or what seems to us as "perfection" or "superior"(which is what I'm doing lol).
It is also a way to put your mind back where it should be and focus on what you SHOULD be doing. Look closely at your OWN life instead being nosy about others' lives. It will turn out to be much more prettier. :D
(note to self : just what the hell are you doing when you are supposed to be studying?!! Thought you said to focus? Stop facebooking and get your ass back to work!!)
It is indeed strange that I still wade around in problems when I consciously (and obviously) know the answers to my misery. I guess I just need to say it to my own face to actually get the will to put things into action. Blogging helps in that way. Which is good. : D
Now back to studying. :d
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